Divorce poison : protecting the parent-child bond from a vindictive ex 1st ed

	Divorce poison : protecting the parent-child bond from a vindictive ex 1st ed
	Warshak, Richard Ades
	New York, New York USA : ReganBooks, © 2001
Book 305 pp	ISBN 0060188995 9780060188993
Synopsis “Its sad these books are necessary, but I thankful someone is helping to educate parents on the essentials of protecting a parent/child bond, when one parent is malicious and hateful.” – a reader Contents: Introduction: Stealing The Soul — The Delicate Balance — The United Front — When Silence Is Not Golden — How to Distinguish Between Helpful and Harmful Criticism — Bad-Mouthing, Bashing, And Brainwashing — Bad-mouthing — Bashing — Brainwashing — Parental Alienation Syndrome — Children Who Resist Divorce Poison — Alienated Children — The Hate Campaign — Trivial Explanations for the Hatred — False Abuse Accusations — Polarizing Parents: Saints and Sinners — Parroting Adults — Declaration of Independence — Hatred by Association — Alienation Without Divorce Poison — Justified Alienation — Child-Driven Alienation — Understanding the Roots of Alienation — Is It Alienation or Not? — False Accusations of Parental Alienation Syndrome — Malignant Motives — Poor Boundaries — Revenge — Narcissism — Guilt — Insecurity — Seeking Validation — Holding On with Hate — Paranoia — Reenactments — Hostility Toward the Children — Custody Litigation — Preventing Alienation During Custody Litigation — Remarriage — The Alienating Environment — Isolation — Relocation — Kidnapping — Stripping — Fear — The Corruption of Reality — The Name Game — Repetition — Selective Attention — Judging Behavior Out of Context — Exaggeration — Lies — Revisionist History — The Total Change Theory — Suggestions and Innuendos — Exploitation — Projection — Rationalization — Holier Than Thou — With God on Our Side — “The Truth” — Overindulgence — Encroachment — Cloak and Dagger — Cognitive Dissonance — Conspiracy — Tamper-Resistant Packaging — Poison Control — Empathy — The Power of Indirect Communication — Fly on the Wall — Two Steps Removed — Using Third Parties — Strike While the Iron Is Cold — Creating Bridges — Healing Experiences — Memorializing the Positive — The Way We Were — Sowing Seeds in the Psyche — Vacations — Divide and Conquer: The Value of Separating Siblings — Contagion Control: Helping Children Stay Neutral — With God on Our Side–Revisited — Agree to Disagree — No One’s Perfect — Think for Yourself — Brainwashing 101 — Films and Television — Become a Better Parent — Avoid Common Errors — Damage Control — Ann Landers’s Reconciliation Day — Getting Professional Help — When to Call the Therapist — How Therapy Can Help — How You Can Help Your Therapist — Selecting Therapists — Conditions of Treatment — Child Custody Evaluations — Phasing In Versus Moving In — Moving Out of One Home Without Moving into the Other — Hiring an Attorney — Letting Go — When to Let Go — How to Let Go — Staying in Touch after Letting Go — New Bridges — Alienated Children as Adults — Coping with the Loss — Hope for the Future.