Divorce poison : protecting the parent-child bond from a vindictive ex 1st ed

protecting the parent-child bond from a vindictive ex Divorce poison : protecting the parent-child bond from a vindictive ex 1st ed
Warshak, Richard Ades           
New York, New York USA : ReganBooks, © 2001
 
 
Book 305 pp ISBN 0060188995 9780060188993
Synopsis

“Its sad these books are necessary, but I thankful someone is helping to educate parents on the essentials of protecting a parent/child bond, when one parent is malicious and hateful.” – a reader

Contents: Introduction: Stealing The Soul —
The Delicate Balance —
The United Front —
When Silence Is Not Golden —
How to Distinguish Between Helpful and Harmful Criticism —
Bad-Mouthing, Bashing, And Brainwashing —
Bad-mouthing —
Bashing —
Brainwashing —
Parental Alienation Syndrome —
Children Who Resist Divorce Poison —
Alienated Children —
The Hate Campaign —
Trivial Explanations for the Hatred —
False Abuse Accusations —
Polarizing Parents: Saints and Sinners —
Parroting Adults —
Declaration of Independence —
Hatred by Association —
Alienation Without Divorce Poison —
Justified Alienation —
Child-Driven Alienation —
Understanding the Roots of Alienation —
Is It Alienation or Not? —
False Accusations of Parental Alienation Syndrome —
Malignant Motives —
Poor Boundaries —
Revenge —
Narcissism —
Guilt —
Insecurity —
Seeking Validation —
Holding On with Hate —
Paranoia —
Reenactments —
Hostility Toward the Children —
Custody Litigation —
Preventing Alienation During Custody Litigation —
Remarriage —
The Alienating Environment —
Isolation —
Relocation —
Kidnapping —
Stripping —
Fear —
The Corruption of Reality —
The Name Game —
Repetition —
Selective Attention —
Judging Behavior Out of Context —
Exaggeration —
Lies —
Revisionist History —
The Total Change Theory —
Suggestions and Innuendos —
Exploitation —
Projection —
Rationalization —
Holier Than Thou —
With God on Our Side —
“The Truth” —
Overindulgence —
Encroachment —
Cloak and Dagger —
Cognitive Dissonance —
Conspiracy —
Tamper-Resistant Packaging —
Poison Control —
Empathy —
The Power of Indirect Communication —
Fly on the Wall —
Two Steps Removed —
Using Third Parties —
Strike While the Iron Is Cold —
Creating Bridges —
Healing Experiences —
Memorializing the Positive —
The Way We Were —
Sowing Seeds in the Psyche —
Vacations —
Divide and Conquer: The Value of Separating Siblings —
Contagion Control: Helping Children Stay Neutral —
With God on Our Side–Revisited —
Agree to Disagree —
No One’s Perfect —
Think for Yourself —
Brainwashing 101 —
Films and Television —
Become a Better Parent —
Avoid Common Errors —
Damage Control —
Ann Landers’s Reconciliation Day —
Getting Professional Help —
When to Call the Therapist —
How Therapy Can Help —
How You Can Help Your Therapist —
Selecting Therapists —
Conditions of Treatment —
Child Custody Evaluations —
Phasing In Versus Moving In —
Moving Out of One Home Without Moving into the Other —
Hiring an Attorney —
Letting Go —
When to Let Go —
How to Let Go —
Staying in Touch after Letting Go —
New Bridges —
Alienated Children as Adults —
Coping with the Loss —
Hope for the Future.

 

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